Parent's Guide

Kidnapping and harassment prevention starts with calm, consistent conversations at home.

Do

Teach full name, address, and your phone number early

Practice regularly so children can confidently share this information with police or helpers in an emergency.

Listen actively and calmly if they report inappropriate behaviour

Thank them for telling you. Believe them. Your calm reaction teaches them they can always come to you.

Teach that their body belongs to them

Use correct names for body parts and explain that no one should ask them to keep secrets about touches.

Don't

Don't force children to hug or kiss relatives

Forcing affection teaches children that their comfort matters less than politeness. Let them choose a wave, high-five, or handshake instead.

Don't put their name visibly on the outside of a backpack

A stranger calling a child by name can quickly build false trust. Keep names on the inside or use a discreet tag.

Don't use fear-based discipline for safety talks

Scaring children can make them hide mistakes. Clear, age-appropriate rules work better than threats.

Conversation tip

Short, repeated chats work better than one big “safety talk.” Use everyday moments — getting dressed, walking to school, or watching a show — to revisit names, numbers, and body-safety rules.